In today's world, culture plays an important role in society. In order to help those in need we first need to understand about their values and beliefs. Imposing one's culture into others is complicated since in the process confrontation and mis-trust occurs. Every culture and race should be valued since they have offered great contributions to society. We have all been exposed to a culture that is different from ours, it is OK to disagree with others as long as we show respect and we watch our tone of voice while communicating. It is also important to consider that what is ok for one person might wrong for another; for example when traveling to Paris, you might receive 2,3 or 4 kisses in the cheeks depending on what region you visit. For many Americans this would be an awkward situation but we have to understand that when visiting other countries one must have a sense of respect towards the new exposed culture. In other words the kisses would represent a welcoming to the country. As a social worker one must be culturally competent and be open to what others have to say; after all listening is the most important part of communication. To be able to help enhance others lives, one needs to understand their economic situation, gender, norms, values and beliefs.
By: Arianna Leon
By: Arianna Leon
What a wonderful and a wonderful way to get ideas out there about adoption, parenting and our diverse world. Thank you for creating this blog! Do you have specific recommendations for adopted children who are having trouble in school?
ReplyDeleteDear Grateful Laura;
ReplyDeleteAs a parent we might think that we "adults" are the only ones that suffer from stress. Children in general not only those who are adopted have lots of trouble in school. We all know that children can be cruel and they will always find something to make other kids feel bad. You have to have in mind that adopted children often fantasize about their birth parents and this creates a barrier for learning and understanding school material. They are often bullied and teased by other children who are not capable of understanding adoption.
Problem solving: 1. You can always go to school and speak to the teachers and school personnel to help encourage their students to be more understanding. Children spend hours in school and the teacher should incorporate socialization skills to build good relationships trough activities like creative playing.
2. Try to find a social network with other adopted children. It might sound amazing but children also need support from others who have experienced the same issues as them. This provides support and a strong sense of identity.
There are many issues adopted children go through in school but I hope this answered part of your question.
Arianna Leon :)